Sunday, May 26, 2024

Should I Feel Bad About Finding Comfort In This?

Maybe this wouldn't have to hit the nuclear power plants, nor hit Taiwan if it happened again, but could at least wipe out Chinese fleets.

https://www.thesun.ie/news/3586691/mega-tsunami-that-almost-wiped-out-life-in-southern-china-1000-years-ago-could-strike-again-at-any-time-researchers-say/

I'm sorry to say that the possibility of this happening again gives me comfort.

Taiwan has a population of nearly 24 million people; China invading Taiwan would probably end up being a genocide of millions of Taiwanese.  Plus, very important Lightworker grids and vortexes would be damaged/destroyed.  

(Because the US wasted so many resources on Ukraine, and is seen as a weak and incompetent nation from Joe Biden (who obviously has dementia) being president and so forth, China may see this as an opportunity to invade.  At the very least, China recently surrounding Taiwan just proves yet again that the US isn't taken seriously anymore.)

An invasion of Taiwan would result in planet-wide devastation.  Obviously, it must not be allowed to happen, no matter what.

Of course, the LF probably have a plan to stop it - a plan that doesn't involve a tsunami. 

In the meantime, I haven't forgotten to be present in the physical.  I go back and forth between looking at worldly affairs and being in harmony with the surrounding environment.  There's always something positive that can be accessed, no matter how negative the news can get.  And, there's this:

https://youtu.be/ZfPFcf0dYnA 

Wednesday, May 22, 2024

Dissolution of the Anomalous Mind

Since so much anomaly has been removed, the real problem now is the human mind that is intertwined with the lurker.  
 
Often, the physical world that’s right in front of us is actually at a ‘higher vibration’ than the human mind.  It’s still important to bring Light through, but focusing the ‘light of consciousness’ on the physical allows for internal discord to dissipate.  
 
It is actions based upon the human (and anomalous non-human) mind that creates all the suffering in the world.  While the geopolitical situation is akin to a great mass of chickens running around with their heads cut off, it’s possible to avoid being brought down when connecting to the stability and uplifting qualities of nature, and the physical itself.  All past traumas and ‘mental discord’ can be bypassed in this way as well.    

Monday, May 20, 2024

Vadim Zeland's "Reality Transurfing" Notes and Summaries, Chapter 14

Time travel is limited to the realm of science fiction.  Physics doesn’t say time travel is impossible, but its physical application is found to be doubtful.

From 3D space, 2D space looks like a flat surface.  The same applies to 4D, with 3D being like a flat surface to 4D.  

In the alternatives space, you can move forward and backward in time, although this is not as depicted in sci-fi movies.  We are only concerned with the shape of reality.  Results are experienced right away, and it’s not a trick or going through the astral or dreamspace.

Transactions:

1.  Activate your ascending and descending energy fountains.  A quick method is to imagine two horizontal arrows extending in opposite directions at the center of your body, one forward, and the other backward, 20-30 cm from your body.  Now, imagine the frontwards arrow turning upward, and the backwards arrow turning downward, so they are vertical to the spine.  You’ll feel a boost in the flow of energy.  This can be practiced when standing still or walking.  This is like a key that turns on the energy currents.  There’s no need to turn the arrows into fountains, or to make a sphere.  The important thing is to imagine being permeated by a flow of energy.  You don’t have to feel this right away, but a real sense of this will come with practice.  You’ll feel a sense of lightness and relaxation.  Use this when you need to quickly enter into a more relaxed state.  Do this many times during the day, particularly when something is troubling you.  You’ll notice how this key releases tension and/or excess potential.

2.  Visualize the target slide.  Imagine yourself in the experience, rather than this being like watching a film.  Use all 5 senses in the imagined experience.  See yourself in the situation as though your goal has already been achieved.  This is easiest to do when relaxed and walking in a familiar place, holding your gaze on the ground in front of you.  Once you can clearly see yourself in the slide, gaze ahead with a look of conscious awareness.  Don’t think or analyze.  Just take in with clear sight whatever you see ahead of you, and further into the distance.  

3.  Clear sight:  For a few seconds, there will appear to be a change in nuance in scenery.  There’s something new about it, as though a new but barely perceptible hue has been added.  It’s as though you’ve seen it somewhere before - not the specific details of the scene, but a certain feeling, mood, or ‘aftertaste.’  For example, you might look at a house you’ve seen many times before, but this time, you notice its color or lighting, understanding that somewhere under different circumstances, you have experienced something similar.  You may get a feeling that you know the scene from something that has happened in the past.  You will no doubt have already come across this bizarre effect when a feeling from the past suddenly streams into your conscious memory.  It’s not a memory as much as it is a feeling from the past - a déjà vu.  We experience the déjà vu effect often.  It’s just that we do not always notice it because we accept situations at face value, sleeping through a daydream.   Transaction, however, allows you to know how the world is changing before you.  You may get a vague sense of something familiar.  Or, you may experience a new, unfamiliar hue.

When doing this, the realization of the material world is moving in the alternatives space.  You are seeing a change in the shades of the scenery in the stage set.  Different sectors in the alternatives space have different scripts and scenery.  Depending on their distance from one another, the differences between the sectors may be more or less pronounced.  The movement of material realization takes place evenly, and for this reason, is barely noticeable.  You will not perceive the movement, just as we do not perceive the movement of the minute hand on small clocks.  Dramatic changes in shade are only felt when there is a sharper shift from one lifeline to another.  This is also when you will see signs that draw your attention.  

During the transaction process, visualizing the slide strengthens the force of the wind of intention.  In these moments, the quality of your thought-energy greatly differs from the frequency of your current lifeline.  The turning of the key strengthens the energy that programs your thoughts.  As a result, the movement of material realization through the sectors accelerates.  Clear sight attunes you to waking up and capturing the moment of change, enabling you to perceive the changing shades in the scenery for the short moments that the gust of wind lasts.  

Perform the above exercise dispassionately, in the same way you would brush your teeth or comb your hair.

During the process of transaction, outer intention is touched upon - that elusive power that cannot be controlled.  Don’t get hung up about it if the exercise doesn’t work right away.  It will work, and make your attempts spontaneous.  Don’t try too hard, or don’t place too much importance on the technique itself.  You may find a different technique that works for you.  Do what feels right and comfortable.  Practice lightly at odd moments in the day.  Don’t see this as a burden, and don’t create excess potential with desire to achieve results as quickly as possible.  Necessity and pressure to do the transaction exercise also creates excess potential.

Differences in shades of scenery - the same scenery takes on different qualities.  You already know that people change, but you might not have taken note of the changes in shade.  Sometimes the differences can be so pronounced that you won’t recognize someone years later, but this has nothing to do with the aging process.  Qualitatively different phases of your life take on different shades.  Go through old photo albums, and you’ll be surprised.

Material realization moves through the alternatives space like a role of film in a projector.  It is this movement that we perceive as time.  You cannot move forward or backward in time in the same lifeline.  However, it’s possible to move through time between different lifelines.  

In childhood, we are still on lifelines that would lead us to our goals.  However, a tendency toward negativism causes a tendency toward shifting to lifelines away from your goal.  By performing the transaction exercise, you shift yourself in the opposite direction, arriving at a lifeline you’ve been at.  This is the “return to the past,” which is going forward to previous lifelines.  You can go back to your previous path.  

At times, you will recognize the shades of the scenery, and at other times, everything will appear as new.  

If you strain to perceive the shades, it’s best to stop and come back to the exercise later.  The transactions exercise will not work if you are in any way tense.  If no change in shades is noticed during a transactions exercise, the quality of the current line already meets the necessary quality of the visualization.  This indicates your goal is on the same line you are currently on.  

When doing the transaction exercise, even if you see something you’ve never seen before, you may still feel that you are seeing something long-forgotten.  And, you will see something that wasn’t there before with familiar scenery.  

When you see what is being described, don’t be afraid.  It’s not mysticism, nor is it just human perception.

You may find that people start treating you differently, or that day-to-day problems disappear.  You will find that daily attributes have changed, but you will be unable to see why.  For example, a clock that stopped working years ago suddenly starts working.  When someone’s balanced is disturbed, negative lifelines are traversed to where problems are more likely, including technologies that stop working.  There is a certain type of person who’s life always seems to be falling apart.  These types of people are usually off balance due to being too absent minded, excitable, tense, or worried.  Sensitive appliances that find themselves on the muddy lifelines of these kinds of people are more likely to fail.  If your clock suddenly starts working again, this suggests that you have managed to shift to more pure lifelines.  Of course, if you clock doesn’t work again, don’t be concerned.  It might just need to be replaced.  

Just as you can travel through the alternatives space, in a sense, you can travel through time.  You can’t return to the past, but it’s possible to retrieve that free ‘feeling of the new,’ hope, and happiness that was lost as a result of moving down a chain of negative branches.  

Moving toward your goal can be like returning to the past, when ice cream was delicious, hope was bright, and life was still joyful and promising.  

Do not despair.  The past lies just ahead.  

The statement that everyone has absolute freedom to choose their own destiny is only a riddle until you clearly understand the origins of bondage.  The answer is:  Freedom is yours when you end the battle.  The answer is short and simple just like the alchemist’s secret on the emerald tablet.  If this answer was given at the beginning of this book, you would not understand all its implications.  

Once you wake up from the daydream and stop being hard on yourself and end the battle with yourself and the world, nothing can hold you down.  The battle will continue, but without your participation, you’ll be free to go where you wish and choose anything you desire.  

The world is a mirror that reflects your relationship to it.  When you are discontent with the world, it turns away from you.  When you fight the world, it fights you back.  When you end the battle, the world meets you halfway.  

Pendulums have shown you your place in life from birth.  They’ve installed a template of a worldview you ‘must accept.’  The rules of the game were explained, and a role was assigned to you, and with that, you’ve been locked up in a box of conditioning.  At the same time, pendulums falsely declare that you are independent.  They declare that you can choose.  You are hung on puppet strings and allowed to go ‘free,’ to desire anything you want and to achieve it any way you see fit.  You pull at the strings trying to achieve your goals, but are unsuccessful.  Then you believe that if you want your place in the sun, you’ll have to fight even harder, both with yourself, and with the world.  This is the pendulum’s rule:  “Fight, and do as I do.”  The only freedom you exercise is the right to take battle.  You choose this, and you always get what you choose.

Pendulums always seek to conceal your true freedom.  No one can force us into battle, but they can instill within our minds that no other choice exists.  In a sense, they are right.  There can be no other choice until we stop clinging to the strings of importance.  

You battle with yourself when you try to control your emotions.  

You can change your relationship to the game without being hard on yourself.  Make a choice for freedom from the battle, and decide the rules of the game for yourself.  Your game with the pendulum revolves around breaking the pendulum’s rules.  The battle is then transformed into a ridiculous fight with a golem.  It is as though you realize it is all just a daydream.  

By distancing yourself from the stage, and watching from the auditorium, you suddenly understand that it’s entirely up to you to decide whether you want to continue participating in the battle, or simply take what’s yours.  

You won’t be able to tear off the strings of importance straight away.  You cannot just decide to be rid of all your excess values and complexes ‘just like that.’  Neither should you set about being rid of them, for that just sets up another battle.  

The strings of importance will drop off by themselves when you stop battling.  Any importance that can be consciously dropped, should be dropped.  Anything that cannot be consciously dropped can be transformed through action.  

Use your target slide in your mind, visualize the process, and calmly place one foot in front of the other in the direction of your goal.  Rejecting the game also counts as action.  Give yourself and the rest of the world the opportunity to be as they are.  There is no need to change yourself, or fight with life.  

Turn your back on the battle, and you will experience more freedom with every passing day.  This isn’t possible to do in ‘one fell swoop.’  However, by observing the principle of coordination, you will make your way out of the mesh of a road full of fallen trees, onto a clear, even road.  You may encounter provocations from pendulums and disappointments at the offset, but the main thing is to not sink into despair.  Everything will work out with time.  

If you are inspired by this with confidence and zeal, expect to come up against some unpleasant surprises.  Depending on the intensity of your confidence and emotional high, you are likely to get a slap from one force or another, as balanced forces will result from the excess potential.  Do not succumb to the temptation of imagining yourself as puppeteer or director/producer of the play called “my life.”  You are of course the director, but solely in relation to your own fate.  You are not the only one acting in the play called “my life,” and so the slightest expression of arrogance and self-importance will create excess potential.  You may think you don’t have a high opinion of yourself at all, but no one is perfect.  You have received the key to an extremely powerful force, and so the slightest deviation from integrity and impeccability will have tangible consequences.  

Your attitude toward your new ability to control the events of your life should be no different to your attitude toward buying a newspaper.  

There is also a warning.  Transurfing is not designed with the intention of causing any other person harm.  It’s possible to use Transurfing to direct hostile intent towards a person or group of people, but doing so would entail serious consequences.  It’s strongly not recommenced to practice ‘black magick.’  Even if it seems to you that retribution is entirely justified, don’t get involved.  If you’ve not been able to resist sending negativity towards your enemy, expect to receive an official warning - you will see a sign.  If then you do not stop, you will be punished.  

We are all guests in this world.  We get to choose, but we don’t get to change anyone or anything.  (Starlight perspective:  This is not always the case.  The world is changing from cosmic energies that are coming through, and people can help to channel this.  Therefore, people can help make changes to the world if they help bring cosmic energies through.)

There have been many civilizations like Atlantis.  Every time people in such civilizations mastered the power of outer intention, they forgot they were just guests in this world, and so they were kicked out.  (Starlight perspective:  If there was no more anomaly/subquantum anomaly and no lurker intertwined within the surface population, this would no longer be the case, as there would no longer be abusive tendencies.)   

Don’t boast to your friends and family.  If you make claims that you will get what is rightfully yours, your chances of success will significantly decrease.  When you know in yourself that you will achieve your goal, do not disturb the balance.  When you declare to others that you will have what you choose, you create excess potential.  

It’s better to act with humility and keep silent.  Once you achieve your goal you can kick up your heels, but without foolish extremes or euphoria.  Otherwise, balanced forces will confiscate your new-found toy.  Transform your joy into the intention of celebration.  Use your right to choose and allow yourself the luxury of perceiving the life you were currently disenchanted with as a celebration.  This celebration will be real, and you will have the hope of acquiring freedom.  You will experience a quiet delight knowing that you are moving towards your goal, and this will keep the feeling of celebration close.  Even balanced forces will not be able to darken your quiet delight.  

In accordance with the principle of coordination, if you perceive life as a celebration, it will become one.  There is no need to continue battling.  You will get what is yours in the end.  By turning your back on the battle, you tear off the strings and acquire your true freedom.
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There is no force capable of preventing you on the path towards your goal if you go with the flow.  Stay balanced, and observe the principle of coordination.  You are no longer a small paper boat on the wave of circumstance, and no puppet in the hands of pendulums.  You have a sail - unity of heart and mind.  You have a helm - your choice.  You glide through the alternatives space on the wind of outer intention. 

Thursday, May 16, 2024

A Very Complex Situation (Updated on 05/17)

I've decided not to speculate on the Russia-NATO situation because this causes problems, so have removed most of this post, and will say this instead:

All nanotechnology from the dark forces on the planet surface needs to be inactivated, so I look forward to more geomagnetic storms.  I'm possibly targeted by nanotechnology more than most, which is maybe also why I had such a positive experience with the G5 storm.  The nanotechnology could have been subdued to some extent during that time.  (Yes, this is another speculation, but this one won't cause any problems.)

 

Monday, May 13, 2024

Vadim Zeland's "Reality Transurfing" Notes and Summaries, Chapter 13

Once you have taken the right path through the right door, no one can stop you except for yourself.

The more stressed you are about the need to do something, the worse the result will be.  A lack of belief in oneself when faced with a difficult situation leads to one feeling completely overwhelmed.  The importance ascribed to your goal makes your desire to reach it excruciating, and then inner importance makes you doubt your own ability.  Most or all of one’s energy gets used to deal with multiple levels of excess potential.  Then, the grip of control is tightened even further.

Stress, panic, and fear are all powerful generators for our worst expectations, which then come true.  

Guilt is another form of insecurity that blossoms into inadequacy, inferiority, lameness, and worthlessness.  With this array of feeling, there cannot be self-confidence.  Guilt, and everything associated with guilt, causes the meridians to narrow.  If you have guilt, manipulators will be around you, like moths around a light bulb.

The stronger the importance and desire, the deeper the insecurity.  The tighter the grip of control over oneself and one’s situation, the greater the tension.  

People try to increase confidence by launching an attack on the world while trying to appear strong and hiding their lack of confidence.  People try to also hide their lack of confidence by appearing decisive and taking on the world head-on.  The energy behind forceful impact is spent on creating excess potentials and resisting the alternatives flow.  Failure results, and then a new wall of confidence is created all over again.  

Others try to generate confidence by having everything at stake in exaggeration.  Yet, if confidence isn’t based on anything, excess potential is created.

When being cocky and overconfident, others are harmed as well.  Confidence from comparing oneself to others is based on pure excess potential, especially if it’s from a scornful or contemptuous attitude toward others.  The result is always a ‘kick up the backside.’  

Confidence cannot be forced.  

When someone stops fighting and takes action, excess potential turns into the implementation of action.  When this happens, the ‘hands do what the eyes fear,’ and everything turns out well.  Confidence is the energy of intention that is released.  Confidence is like energy - it is either present, or not present.

Using affirmations does not create confidence, and is like trying to cure an illness without curing the cause.  Someone can say affirmations that make them feel more confident in the short term, but pendulums will then create a nasty provocation to cause one to ‘fall on one’s face.’  One will think they glimpsed the ‘light at the end of the tunnel,’ only to arrive at a dead end instead.  

How do you free yourself from the labyrinth?  You can’t.  There’s no exit.  The secret to the labyrinth is that the walls will crumble when you give up on trying to find the exit, and abandon importance.  

There are two types of insecurity:  1.  Comparing oneself to others based on the strengths of others and one’s own shortcomings.  2.  Unrealistic over-estimation of external factors.  As a result, fears result from the large gap between one’s meager qualities and the high demands of the external world, such as feeling small in a big city, and the fear of reality.   

To have self-confidence, let go of wanting to acquire it.  Trying to find confidence in a labyrinth is just another pendulum - another trap for importance.  Where there is belief, there is always room for doubt. Likewise, where there’s contrived confidence, there is always room for hesitation and indecisiveness.  Even small adjustments by pendulums are enough to bring down the walls of confidence.  

The notion of confidence is constructed on excess potential and dependent relationships.

The pursuit of confidence is as fruitless as is chasing after illusory happiness that is always somewhere in the future.  When there is no importance, there is no need to guard or conquer, so confidence is not needed.  There is nothing to fear or be anxious about.  There’s no excess meaning, so there is no excess potential.

Pendulums promote:  “There is no such thing as a free lunch.”  “If you want to achieve something, you have to fight for it, insist, demand, outstrip your rivals, and elbow your way forward.”  If you calmly take what is yours though, you will not have to fight for it, but simply find the will to have.  

When there is freedom without struggle, there is no need for confidence.  Confidence only has one origin, which is importance.  Confidence has the same potential as insecurity.  Both are ‘two sides of the same coin.’  

Not letting go creates the illusion of security, which is founded on importance, which leads to confidence/insecurity, as dependency.  Pendulums try to convince someone that they will not be able to choose their own path by themselves, or walk without the support of strings, as a puppet.   

Let go of the need to prove anything to yourself or others.  You can spend your whole life battling to prove your worth, but when you let go of the battle, you acquire it.

It is not easy to convince yourself of your own true worth.  If you suffer from low self-esteem, you will not be able to see high self-worth.  

Trying to convince yourself of your self-worth results in being smug or over-confident.  Or, you will sink deep into despair.  Therefore, abandon the struggle for self-worth, and therefore confidence, altogether.  Let go of the battle, and see what happens.  Others will treat your with more respect, and value you more highly.  

It’s pointless to try to deny and stamp out guilt, just as it is pointless to try to boost self-esteem.  

Stop justifying yourself to others.  Only justify yourself when it is absolutely necessary to explain your actions.  No one has the right to judge you, no matter what you have done, as long as you have not harmed anyone else.  Silently leave the courtroom where people gather to profit from the guilt of others.  Stop the inner battle to rid yourself of guilt, and it will disappear.

Having abandoned the battle for self-worth and having given up justifying yourself, you will have settled the score with a significant portion of inner importance, as guilt and low self-worth are the predominant manifestations of inner importance.  There will be no need for protection, for there will be nothing to protect.  Neither will you need to pounce on others to stop their attacks.  There’s the saying, “Do not frighten anyone, and you will have nothing to fear.”  

If you reduce the importance of external factors, they will cease to reign over you with their preeminence.  

The two most oppressive kinds of outer importance are fear of the unknown and feeling overwhelmed by challenges.  Insecurity, like confidence, requires energy.  Insecurity’s energy goes into anxiety and panic, while confidence’s energy goes into overcoming obstacles.  

Instead of trying to increase confidence, lower importance and go with the flow of purified intention.  Of course, all things in life have a certain degree of importance.  Don’t try to negate importance, but transform the energy of anxiety into the energy of action.  Begin the process of doing in any way you can, without insistence or pressure.  Excess potential will disperse through action, which releases the energy of intention.  Complex problems will be transformed into minor ones.

You don’t need confidence or faith.  You need coordination.  Coordination means taking pleasure in thinking about the goal as if it had already been reached, letting go of the grip of control over the script, and going with the alternatives flow, helping it along with the ore of pure intention.  

With faith, there is always room for doubt.  It is the forced potential of importance that blinds.  When you go with the flow in conscious awareness, everything falls into place without excessive effort.  

Faith is transformed into knowledge, and fear of the unknown becomes satisfaction at the feeling of your own strength when having coordination.  Reduce importance, let go of the script, and decide the level of complexity a challenge represents and adjust this to the script, which will play in your favor if you let it.  

Absolute coordination is achieved as a result of harmony between heart and mind.  Love yourself, accept yourself the way that you are, not suffering from guilt, and firmly act according to the directives of the heart and mind.

Like the heart, your credo can get sealed up in the box of importance.  As soon as you let go of inner and outer importance, you will immediately sense that your credo has been freed.  Simply live in accordance with it, and calmly take what is yours.  

By abandoning the battle for self-worth, not allowing others to judge your worth, and reducing your outer importance, you acquire what is considered to be true confidence.  This is a calm inner strength.

True, calm coordination does not relate to anything external, and so requires neither confirmation nor proof.  You don’t compare yourself to anyone.  You are simply in a state of balance, achieved through unity of heart and mind.  You don’t disturb the balance inside yourself, or in the world around you.  Live in harmony with yourself, the outside world, and your credo, which allows you to have true confidence, or coordination.  

Coordination means freedom from pendulums, being free to traverse where you wish and claim whatever you desire.  

If at the present time you have to fulfill tiresome obligations, detach yourself, and imagine that you are being filmed for a movie.  Hang on, for you will have to fulfill your role to the end, or at least until the end of the current series, until you walk through the right door.  Practice visualizing your target slide without thinking about the means, and wait for outer intention to open the door to you.  

“At last, I am free from the unnecessary burden of excess potential.  Inner and outer importance no longer exist.  I have no need to assert my superiority or hide my inferiority.  I fear neither the past nor the future.  I have nothing to protect and nothing to conquer.  I am finally free from the influence of pendulums, and can take care of myself.”  If only this were true.  It can be.

The effect of pendulums is on three levels:  Mental, emotional, and energetic.  

The accumulation of all kinds of data is growing exponentially.  The threat is not in the volume of data, but the methods and means of its distribution.  We are ensnared within a web of telecommunications that become more dangerous every day.  We are not aware of the danger because this takes the form of entertainment and fun tools to use.  Of course, it’s not the pendulum’s goal to entertain, but to subject adherents to its power.

The greater the percentage of the population that watches the same program, the more energy a pendulum can harvest.  The more followers, the more there is “Do as I do.”  The pendulum draws people away from their innermost goals.  The ultimate goal is to deprive humanity of the freedom of choice.  One day, people will find themselves in a situation in which they represent nothing more than an element of a monstrous informational energy matrix.  The individual will be shut in a box of conditioning, transformed into a detail of a greater machine.  The matrix grid would determine how each element would function, and what everyone would wish for.  This is done in a way where no one has a notion of what freedom is anymore.  As you know, science fiction has a tendency to become reality.  (Starlight perspective:  In the context of planetary liberation, this will not happen.)

Importance is the only thing a pendulum can hook into.  A pendulum can even hook into your attributing great importance to keeping importance at zero.  

The most important principle in the battle with pendulums is to refuse to fight them.  It’s really up to you what kind of fight you want this to be.  If you fight though, you will lose.  A pendulum can be like a clay golem.  If you challenge the golem, even along the lines of, “Now I know it is just a clay golem.  I will show it,” consider yourself defeated.  If you perceive it as a game, you will at worst lose the round, but not the fight.  

The nature of the game:  You take the bait, lose your sense of balance, become very upset, and feed your energy to the pendulum.  You start off calm, happy and balanced, but it does not last long before the pendulum provokes you.  When being provoked, wake up and remember what the game is, and then instantly reduce importance.  If you do this with conscious awareness, the pendulum will fall through into emptiness.  

If you deliberately act strangely, the pendulum’s plans will be ruined.  You just have to come to your senses in time, and break the rules of the game.  You will see how pleasant it is when you are aware that the pendulum is trying to provoke you while you do not take the bait.  You receive the energy that went into trying to provoke you when you break the rules of the game, which makes you stronger, instead of the pendulum.  

During the time when playing with conscious awareness, you are having fun.  Fight a golem with sugar sabers, and it will not be able to touch you.  Maintain inner balance, and the golem will shatter into pieces.  

Don’t fight your reaction to being provoked.  Instead, look at it from a different perspective.  Your emotions are the effect, while your relationship to what is happening is the cause.  

In a room of mirrors, the mirrors of importance will split into tiny pieces when importance is removed as the golem crumbles.  

You don’t need toughness when dealing with pendulums.  Emptiness is considerably more effective.  

The need to keep importance at zero should not escalate into a permanent state of readiness for defense combat.  Don’t attach excessive meaning to the game itself.  Relax, and allow yourself to lose from time to time.  There is no need to strive for victory at all costs.  

While you maintain your grip of control, the pendulum will twist you about.  It will drag you like a dog gripping onto a stick.  It does not want to let go.  If the game is not any fun, display the maximum level of indifference possible by losing and not caring at all.  There’s nothing wrong with getting upset.  Don’t give yourself a hard time.  The next game will be yours.  Don’t promise that this time will be the last.  Don’t make a trap for yourself to fall into.  

Ultimatums for yourself are really for pendulums to use for their advantage.  Also, putting a protective wall up for yourself will result in your defeat.  

When having addictive behaviors and saying, “This is the last time,” this is not you talking.  Every time you swear to yourself, “Just one last time and that’s it,” wake up and shake off the delusion.  It’s the pendulum that’s speaking.  Being consciously aware of this allows you to split with a bad habit - not decisively, but indifferently.  

Pendulums will do anything.  They will wither away anything that’s sacred.  

The world is multiplicity in oneness.  The divine essence penetrates all living and nonliving beings.  Pendulums took all religions under their control.  The origin of the 10 commandments was in a manner of speaking:  Love God, yourself, and others without worshiping pendulums.

When dealing with a pendulum, if you are unable to reduce importance enough, still its sway by reacting in an inadequate manner.  Any inadequate reaction to provocation is a gross violation of the rules of the game.  

Pendulums want you to fight for your goal, declaring war on the world and yourself.  Pendulums start with yourself, making you believe you are not perfect, and so you will not achieve your goal until you ‘change.’  And once you have ‘changed,’ you then must ‘battle for a place in the sun.’  Of course the only motivation behind this scenario is to drain the victim’s energy.  

The Transurfer does not fight for freedom, because the Transurfer already knows freedom is theirs.  No one can force you to fight, but if you are filled with inner and outer importance, you really don’t have any other choice.  

You can spend your entire life in the expectation for a better future.  Do not wait for the future, but instead insert the future into the current moment.  Allow yourself to have, here and now.  This doesn’t mean you will have everything right now.  This is about will, or the intention to have, instead of the battle with the self.   

In life, most people work long and hard battling just for a short period of enjoyment.  Those who give themselves permission to have do not have to take part in the battle.  

Allowing yourself to have causes outer intention to make it so.  If you do not expect instant results and continue to allow yourself to have, one fine day something will happen that others will want to call a miracle.  

Those who are born with millions are already imbued with the will to have.  Those who are not inherently rich though, will have to work with slides.  Earn the will to have, not the money.  If you concentrate on the goal as though you have already achieved it, doors will open, and matters will take care of themselves.  

It would be easy to say that all of this is rubbish, and continue toiling away for the rest of one’s life.  Everyone makes their choice and receives what they are willing to have.  Your choice can be immutable law, and with it, you can shape your own reality.  

Imagine being in an ‘alternatives space shop.’  A customer sees an item that they want.  This item is to be a star.  The shopkeeper says, “Sure, go ahead and have it.”  Then the customer comes up with all kinds of reasons why the item is not meant for them.  “Only a select few make it to be stars,” etc.  Eventually the shopkeeper says “Ok, this item isn’t for you,” and puts the item back on the shelf.  As soon as you allow that achieving a goal is a matter of choice, you will begin to feel just how absurd the customer’s concerns are in the alternatives space shop.  It’s just a matter of being willing to have.

Don’t force yourself to allow yourself to have.  Don’t force yourself to picture the target slide.  You should not need to push or pressure yourself, because this makes it a battle.  Simply take pleasure in having exciting thoughts.  Abandon importance and end the battle.  The reason one continues to battle is because everything around them is elevated in importance.  You cannot allow yourself to have while ardently fighting for your place in the sun.  

Have a carefree, lighthearted resolve.  Relax the grip of control and just be aware that you are taking what is yours.

Importance is the underlying cause of effort, and compulsive grip.  Will power is essential in overcoming obstacles, but obstacles are borne of importance.  When abandoning importance, pushing for your goals transforms into the will to have.  Then, outer intention sets in.

If you are filled with decisiveness and vigor, you still have a deadly grip, and balanced forces will quickly cool your smoldering coals, and pendulums will try to provoke you.  Eventually, you will learn to differentiate between decisiveness and will.

The will to have is the dispassionate, unemotional intention to take what is unquestionably yours.  Have this in mind:  “If I want it, what’s the problem?  I will have it.”

Two things get in the way of allowing yourself to have:  1.  Conflict between heart and mind.  2.  The excess potential of inner and outer importance, which uses up free energy.

Thoughts must flow from the unity of heart and mind.  Otherwise, the intention will not be pure.  Doubt, desire, and the need for control drain the energy of intention.  Someone learning to ride a bicycle can only ride it successfully when there is unity of heart and mind.  The mind releases the need to control, and the unity of heart and mind happens naturally to allow one to ride the bike.   The mind is surprised that this works of its own accord.  The mind then accepts it, seeing that trying to be in control is unnecessary.  Riding the bike transforms from being a challenge to being fun.

When you are dragging inner and outer importance around with you, you waste 99% of your energy on supporting excess potential.  The hardest excess potential to overcome is fear.  You cannot force yourself to be unafraid.  Finding a plan B or alternative route dissipates fear.  

Anxiety and panic is dispersed through action.  The action doesn’t have to be related to the cause of stress.  As long as you do something, the anxiety will be reduced.  Accept the possibility of defeat, and act.  The energy of desire then goes into your intention.  The excess potential from waiting is dispersed through action as well.

If you don’t automatically rush to protect your sense of self-esteem, it suggests that you have a healthy sense of your own worth, and people will start treating your differently.  

Play the pendulum’s game, but break the rules.  Remember quickly enough that it’s just a game, and then you can humorously break the rules by reacting inadequately.  Respond with over-enthusiasm to good news.  Respond in an unusual way to bad news, not fitting the pattern of it getting you down.

To eliminate guilt, those who judge you will go on their own way once they realize there is no defendant.  In time, your case will be closed.

However hard you try to go with the flow, there will be others who will make it more difficult.  Naturally, this evokes resentment and indignation.  If you can’t deal the resentment and indignation that you feel, allow yourself not to be able to deal with it.  Giving excessive need to keep importance to a minimum will only make things worse.  Move on to the path that goes toward your goal, and then with time when you do work, you will work only for yourself.  Until that day comes, occasionally allow yourself to blow up and create excess potential.  Don’t pressure yourself to win all the time.    

The will to have has 3 stages.  1.  Inhibition caused by an unfamiliar situation.  “Surely this cannot all be for me.”  You wonder that it might all not be possible.  2.  Delight.  This is when you accept the goal into your comfort zone.  The feeling of restriction falls away.  The realization that the goal is realistic evokes a feeling of elation.  3.  The goal becomes ordinary, with reduced importance.  Action becomes primary.  

Many people have deep valleys and high hills.  Those who go for the prize at the top of the hill may momentarily reach it, only to come tumbling down from balanced forces.  

Then there are those who are ‘negativists,’ who believe they have no power to change anything, who prefer to wallow in the feelings of their worst expectations.  Naturally, their worst expectations are realized.  Negativists don’t only suffer from inner importance.  They will also hand over their destiny to others in the manner of “God’s will be done.”  They neither move with the alternatives flow, nor do they go against it.  They simply wallow in their own discontent, poisoning the atmosphere around them.  They get a kick out of being right about at least something.  They have perfected the art of confirming their own negative attitude.  

Negativists almost derive a sadomasochistic pleasure from negativity.  They can make a mountain out of the tiniest mole hill.  Their motto is, “Life is loathsome, and gets worse with every passing day.”  Having made this choice, they find confirmation of this in everything.  They are such natural sufferers, that they are constantly being blamed and punished.  Such is the bitter lot of the martyr.  They literally swim in a sea of negativity.  Negativity is the only thing they have that the world can agree with them on and meet them half way.  They find strength in that their worst expectations will be confirmed.  

Sometimes a negativist will accidentally find themselves on a wave of fortune.  For a while, they might feel happy and content, but it doesn’t last long because they can’t resist looking about intently for the spell of bad luck they are so comfortable with.  And why not?  Anything good comes to an end, and good luck is just not normal or natural.  The negativist will return to their ditch where everything is terrible, but predictable.  

Negativists search for something by which they can attach their discontent, such as listening to the disasters in the news, complaining, blaming, and generally making demands.  If making demands doesn’t work, they crawl into the role of victim, who everyone must calm and sooth.  

It is extremely difficult to wean a negativist off the habit of finding comfort in self-torture.  Negativists end up sucking others down into their own ‘pit of hell.’  Although the negativist seems impotent, they have a definite power that they exploit to its full force.  Their power is in their firm conviction that life is terrible, and gets worse with every passing day.  This conviction is their will to have, which is why their choices are transformed into physical reality.  

In reality, we are not impotent, and we do have the power to make changes in our lives.  The fact that negativists’ expectations are realized proves that everyone is capable of influencing the course of events, capable of determining the script, not only in dreaming, but also in waking.  Perhaps it’s just a matter of substituting a negative attitude with a positive one.  “Life is wonderful, and gets better with every passing day.”  This can be a journey across the clouds.  Yet, if you doubt for one moment, or look down out of fear, you will fall downward from a great height.  

The negative outlook persists so firmly, because from birth, a person is used to thinking that the world is out to get them.  A huge wave of aggression sweeps over someone soon after being born.  They were comfortable in the womb, when suddenly, the poor child is roughly squeezed out of their comfortable home, hearing the mother’s screams, and being possibly aware of the fact that they are the cause of her suffering.  With this, the foundation for a guilt complex is laid.  The child then suffers the trauma of the umbilical cord being broken and being slapped on the back.  Air cuts into its lungs with the sharpness of a razor.  It’s painful to breathe, but the child has no other choice.  The conditions are to either fight for life or die, as the battle for survival.  The child is afraid and in pain, and to top it all, is then taken away from its mother and is shut up into a sterile box.  Exhausted, the child attempts to hide from life in the safety of its dreams.  

Such is our first encounter with the outside world, filled with fear, loneliness, hopelessness, resentment, anger, and total impotence.  These are the first programs into the mind, with the road to pendulums being successfully made.  These shocking methods of childbirth are widespread, and are considered as ‘civilized practice.’  Rarely does it occur to anyone that a birth of this nature is a terrible shock for the child that leaves a deep wound in the subconscious for life.  No creature in the animal kingdom experiences anything even remotely similar at birth.  Only in occasional and very expensive clinics can one be assured of a more personable birth.  

The child later learns to be loved and feel safe, but then the world of pendulums steps in, telling the child that life is not safe after all.  The mind then feels that it needs to control everything.  This is all being stated to illustrate how much negativity is programmed into us.  

Offer the mind a new game:  Every time something bad happens, the mind has to wake up and consciously evaluate the level of importance that’s being attributed, and then change its relationship to the problem.  Your mind is sure to like it.  If you allow yourself to be guided by this principle, you will achieve the same level of success in realizing the positive, as negativists do in realizing their worst expectations.  If you choose to perceive seemingly negative events in the script as positive, that is what their outcome will be.  It could be asked, “What good comes from setbacks?”  It may sound strange, but it works every time.  You don’t have to believe in this principle though.  Simply experiment with it.  

We choose our relationship to every event.  If an event is chosen to be seen as positive, you position yourself on a favorable branch of the lifeline.  A predisposition for negativity, however, causes a person to express their discontent and choose an unfavorable branch on the lifeline.  From first thing in the morning, people can get irritated by the slightest little thing, and then the next thing, until their whole day is turned into a constant trail of trouble.  Even with the small things, as soon as you lose your inner balance, a negative scenario evolves into a drama.  Then, the next thing follows.  The trail of trouble does not come from the initial irritation, so much as your attitude towards it.  

When something tries to get under your skin, say to yourself, “Stop!  This is just a game with a golem.  Ok golem, let’s play.”  Whatever is happening, stay positive, and pretend that you are pleased.  There is a reason there are sayings like “Every cloud has a silver lining” and “A blessing in disguise.’  Even if you fail to find anything positive in a negative scenario, adopt the ‘foolish habit’ of rejoicing in setbacks.  It’s much more fun than getting irritated and whining at every inconvenience, and shields you from future misfortune.  

You expend energy in creating obstacles, and even more energy in overcoming them.  Why not instead ride the wave of fortune?  

Tell your mind that it will still be in control, but that it now perceives all events as positive.  You only perceive an event as negative because it doesn’t fit into your scenario.  Therefore, pretend that the event is just what is needed.

The secret of coordination is letting go of the grip on control, while at the same time taking the situation into your own hands.  When you let go of the need to control, you become able to keep your own attitude, and consequently, the situation, under control.  

All the mind has to do is run the target slide, and follow the principle of coordination.  Then, outer intention will bring you closer to your goal.  

Be most careful not to end up with your ‘head in the clouds.’  You are not meant to be floating in the air, but rather taking conscious, intentional action that enables you to have balance as you ride the wave of fortune - the essence of Transurfing.

You are only able to receive what you are willing to receive.  You have what you have because it corresponds to your worldview, and vision of your place in the world.  Now that you are acquainted with all the main principles of Transurfing, you can manage your fate according to your own free will.  Your fate is a reflection of your personal choices and beliefs.  

The mind can’t be convinced of anything until it’s confronted with fact.  However, the mind is capable of pretending, as well as having blind, fanatic belief - usually a false belief based on intense excess potential created when inflated meaning is attributed to conviction.  

When the mind is absorbed with false belief, it becomes so deafened by its own fanaticism that it’s incapable of seeing or hearing anything else.  When the mind climbs into the box where it has stuffed the heart, belief is blind.  

The sail of false belief will never fulfill the wind of outer intention.  False belief is a trap that pendulums set in the labyrinth of insecurity.  It’s an illusion when someone believes they have escaped through a false belief.  Deep down there is doubt that is not acknowledged because of the wall of faith that blocks it out.  

Where there is belief, there is always room for doubt.  

True belief is more than belief - it is knowledge.  Belief is false if you have to persuade or convince yourself of it, regardless of the approach that is used.  Knowledge is shaped by facts, not conviction. When the mind is faced with a fact, it simply knows, whereas false belief is maintained by the mind’s control.

When you have to try to convince yourself of something, you risk adopting false beliefs.  Yet, when you listen to the ‘rustle of the morning stars,’ illusions are revealed.  If there is a pang of discomfort, step back from trying to convince yourself of the idea you want to adopt.  When unity of heart and mind is achieved, you won’t have to convince yourself of anything.   

The heart always answers with “yes” or “no,” but never “maybe” or “probably.”  If the heart has the slightest doubt, the answer will be “no.”  When the heart has doubts, there is no way to persuade it otherwise.  

Replace “believe” with “know.”  If the mind knows that such-and-such a thing will happen, the heart will agree without question.  Do you believe that you are reading this text?  No, because believing doesn’t come into it.  You simply know that you are reading this text.  

Now that you have removed the notion of “belief” from your mind, allow yourself to have the knowing that your desire will be fulfilled.  The goal will be reached when there is the will to have, and if there is the will to act by moving through the right door, it is your choice.  You are in charge.  If the decision is truly yours, any thoughts along the lines of “What if it does not happen?” will become irrelevant.  

Knowledge is the foundation upon which confidence is built.  When you have the knowing of the heart, you can determine the outcome.  

To acquire knowing, you have to get used to and accept something.  People are this way with telephones, televisions, airplanes, etc.  Before these technologies were invented though, they were considered as incredible.  

Apply the slide technique.  Harbor knowledge in your mind and look after it until outer intention makes it a fact.  The task is not to convince yourself, but instead to remind yourself that you will achieve your goal.  

If doubt steps in, the mind fixating on how a goal can be achieved will creep back in.  Put these doubts in their proper place right away.  “I know success depends on my choice, and I have made my choice.  So why hesitate?”  If you do this, doubts will gradually fade.  Where there is knowledge without belief, doubt cannot exist.  

Battling with doubt results in your defeat.  You can, however, console yourself with the knowledge that doubts don’t guarantee failure.  The road might just get a bit bumpy at times.  You alone decide if you will achieve your goal or not.  Remind yourself of this every time doubt sets in.  

Old habits can run deep, but never forget that you are in charge of your own fate.  In the situation of Jesus walking on water, it must have been as natural as walking on ground for us.  Others would be able to walk on water as well if they could be rid of the doubt, anxiety, and emotion connected with doing so.  Does this sound improbable?  Well, the history of humanity is a continuous chain of the surprising and incredible.  

It was once said that iron ships would never float on water, let alone fly.  Yet, when these things happened, people no longer wondered if they were possible.  If you can remind yourself that success is only a matter of choice, you will soon get used to your goal.  

Only pendulums need other people’s faith.  With Transurfing, winning people over with belief has no purpose whatsoever.  The goal of the author is not to convince you, but to break through the stereotypes and false thought patterns of the conventional worldview, to break you out of conditioning and into awakening.  When you wake up, you realize you can direct your own dream, no longer relying on belief.  Take action, and you will see what happens as a result.  

With Transurfing material, do not believe.  Instead, verify and prove.  Then, you will simply know.  

It’s futile to try and acquire faith.  Only the mind can be deceived.  The mind can forget doubts, but doubts will continue in the heart.  Run your target slide, and place one foot in front of the other.  Don’t give the means attention, and brush faith aside.   Live as though the goal has already been achieved.  Take pleasure in the task.  Then outer intention will do its work, and ‘apples will fall to the sky.’  

When visualizing your goal, the wind of outer intention slowly but surely changes the course of your boat onto the corresponding course in the alternatives space.  Opportunities arise in ways you never would have expected.  Outer intention directs your actions, bringing you closer to your goal.  

Circumstances could unfold in a bizarre way, and yet how can you know which road specifically leads to your goal?  Would you expect to teach a top chef how to prepare a dish in their own restaurant?
 
If you are walking to a job you hate through the mud and rain, but have a sense of the celebration of life in your heart, all the difficulties you are experiencing will soon disappear.  The quality of your energy will no longer correspond to the frequency of the scene.  Again, there’s no way to convince you of this, for there is no way out of the labyrinth of faith.  However, hope is being inspired.  There has to be hope that the walls of the labyrinth will crumble.  It’s impossible to practice Transurfing without this hope, and you would not have started if you did not have hope.  When there is hope, the mind feels firm ground beneath its feet, and the heart becomes vibrant.  

When people encounter misfortune or disappointment, or when they come up against a difficult problem, they give their energy away to pendulums and feel anxious, exhausted, and depressed.  People either get all psyched up to deal with the situation, or they give up entirely.  Neither position is very positive, and both lead to stress and depression.  The inner core of confidence gets undermined, and people turn to cigarettes, alcohol, and drugs as a way out, only to find themselves in bondage to pendulums.  

You can always find inner strength when you wake up and become conscious of how an unfortunate situation was created in the first place.  Of course the cause is pendulums, and it’s your relationship to this that truly matters.  If you accept the importance to the problem, you are giving your energy to the pendulum.  Be aware the pendulum wants you to either tense up and fight, or to lose heart and succumb to despair.  This knowledge gives you the support you need for liberation.  
 
“No, pendulum.  You will not get your hands on my energy.  I know what you are after, and how you are trying to get your claws into me.  It will not work.  You will not get me to buy into the importance of the problem.  I have the right to choose, and I choose to be free of you.”

Everyone who has achieved success has passed through a whole forest of setbacks and failures.  If you have made a mistake, be glad, for you are on the sure path to success.  All the life experiences that you consider worthless will benefit you in your target lifeline.  If you beat yourself up, whine, and complain about life, failure will repeat itself again and again.  

Apathy dissipates when fresh hope emerges.  Both humans and animals who walk the desert to the point of exhaustion forget their weariness when they spot the oasis on the horizon.  

The fly that beats against the window pane next to the open window:  Its entire life, the fly has had it pummeled into its head that when you see a goal, you should fly directly towards it.  And yet, the fly sees its goal, and beats against the window pane in vain.  It’s the same with people when they fail to understand how to achieve their goal, being deprived of choice and forced to accept the little they have.  Now that you know the open window exists and is close by, even though you cannot see it, you will have hope.  And where there is hope, the energy of intention is released.  

We need hope to begin taking action.  When hope has done its work, you will become conscious of the freedom of choice.  Then you will say to yourself, “I do not want, and I do not hope.  I intend.”

Sunday, May 12, 2024

My Experience of the Latest Solar/Geomagnetic Storm, and an Opportunity

The latest solar/geomagnetic storm was the strongest I've seen since I started monitoring the Planetary K index several years ago:



With previous solar/geomagnetic storms, I was more unbalanced.  However, overall, this latest one was enjoyable.  When the graph maxed out, I experienced harmony, heightened awareness, and vigor.  Perhaps also, the planet is now much more ready for the massive solar/geomagnetic storm that will take place during the Event.

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Covid has been in my 'hologram' lately.  This is probably because the WHO is having a meeting toward the end of this month for their 'pandemic agreement.'  I embrace this as an opportunity to help educate others on the failure of the vaccines, and easy ways to drastically strengthen the immune system.  The supplement N-acetylcysteine is one such example.  

I'll keep it simple this time and state the obvious:  The covid vaccines and boosters have been ineffective.  There were, and are, far superior methods of treatment. 

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I'm almost done with summarizing Chapter 13 of Reality Transurfing.  Will post soon.   

Thursday, May 2, 2024

Vadim Zeland's "Reality Transurfing" Notes and Summaries, Chapter 12

Replace the intention of receiving with the intention of giving, and you will receive what you give up.

We tend to measure success by achievements and by the problems we’ve amassed.  Rather than solve problems, avoid coming across problems in the first place.  And, goals are achieved in an uncommon way, with outer intention.  

One way or another, achievements and problems are borne of relationships with others - personally and professionally.  

There is a way to have outer intention work independently of your will, but nonetheless in your favor.  

Outer intention can accomplish feats with the wave of a hand, because it does not want anything for itself.  It simply allows inner intention to work unhindered.  (Recap for new readers:  Inner intention is based on working hard for a goal, trying to force a goal to happen.  Outer intention is based on allowing a goal to realize itself.)

You can let go of your own inner intention to have outer intention work with the inner intention of others.  You can use the inner intention of others to accomplish your goals.  This may sound selfish, but this does not mean you are using or abusing others.  It’s more a matter of not getting in the way of others doing what they want to do.  

At the end of the day, all problems arise due to conflicts of interest surrounding inner intention.  Motivated by personal interests, one person tries to get something from another who has different plans, who want things done their way.  It’s a difficult task to fulfill the needs of both people, but only on the surface.  It’s just a matter of finding a common ground between each other’s inner intentions.  

Self-worth lies at the core of inner intention.  Pendulums are created by people, but then work independently, subjecting people to their laws.  Pendulums use importance to establish their control.

Advice that goes around:  “If you can’t change others, change yourself.”  This advice immediately causes inner discomfort and protest.  “So I am imperfect and need to change, but I so do not want to.”  And it’s quite right that you do not want to.  Do not try to change others, but also, do not try to change yourself.  Saying to change others or yourself is only from a standpoint of inner intention.  

Allow others to realize their inner intention.  The act of allowing stirs outer intention, which causes inner intention to be realized, seemingly of its own accord.  

Imagine a woman who wants to get married, but her would-be husband is reluctant, not wanting to. Working with inner intention, the woman focuses all her thoughts on persuading him to get married.  Yet, her desire and importance on getting married creates excess potential.  As a result, balanced forces will steal her loved one away.  The woman forces their relationship into a dependent relationship, making marriage the deal breaker.  “If you loved me, you would agree to marry me.”  

For outer intention to work, the woman would have to let go of her attachment to persuade her partner to marry her, and ask herself, “What does a man look for in a marriage?”  He wants to know that his needs will be met, and that he’ll feel loved, valued, respected, admired, etc.  If the woman’s energy was directed toward helping him meet these needs, she would not only meet her own goal, but would succeed in having her own similar needs met.  If the woman doesn’t believe her would-be husband deserves love and respect, why be with him in the first place?  

As a rule, people are so consumed with what they want to get from others, they do not bother to find out what those other people want.  By shifting your intention to the desires and motivations of others, you will easily find your own needs met.  All it takes for the woman is to ask what the focus is of her would-be husband’s inner intention.  This is like the fly that flies backwards from the paine of glass, finally spotting the open window.  

Focusing on the inner intention of someone else transforms your inner intention into outer intention.  

When at a party, everyone else is preoccupied with themselves and how they appear.  It’s not centered around you, so you can relax and be at ease.  

Setting the goal of acting in an unaffected manner does not work.  You can only achieve a state of being unaffected if you reduce importance.  However, this is not always easy.  It won’t happen ‘just like that.’  What is needed is to show interest in others.  Know that people are exclusively interested in themselves, so be interested in them too.  Shift your attention from yourself to others, and stop playing the game of inflating your self-worth.  Play the game of increasing the significance of others.  Listen to what they have to say, and observe.  You don’t have to be overly pleasing though.  Just go with the flow.  When shifting attention from yourself to others, the excess potential of self-importance will fade automatically.  Then, you will succeed in behaving naturally.  You attract attention to yourself by showing interest in others.

Don’t talk to people about what you are interested in.  Talk to them about what they are interested in, including themselves.  Then, people will have nowhere to retreat from your outer intention, which is always completely subtle in its workings.  It’s useless to try to get people to be interested in you, and is only from inner intention.  Even if you are a thousand times more attractive than you are now, people will still primarily be interested in themselves, only being interested in others as an afterthought.  

All the time you are trying to attract attention, you are thinking solely of yourself.  Yet, when you focus on someone else, you are fulfilling their inner intention.  Because you fulfill their need, others become interested in you.  

In everyday communication, it doesn’t matter how interesting you are.  What matters is how well someone else thinks you would suit them in a relationship.  This is what they are evaluating while communicating with you.  

When a person is with you, they are generally thinking of their own interests, and consciously and unconsciously evaluating how well you would fit in a relationship where they would feel personally fulfilled.  Someone feels self-fulfilled when their self-worth is confirmed - feeling liked, interesting, respected, as worthy as anyone else, and valued.   

If you are good for someone else’s self-esteem, they will overlook failings you may have and forgive your weaknesses.  Your positive and negative qualities are not the other person’s concern.  The sense of self-worth they experience when talking to you is their utmost priority.  

You could be physically gorgeous, but this doesn't guarantee a relationship.  Many stars suffer from loneliness.  Extremely good looks can even be a hindrance to relationships.  People more gauge a person’s value based on how significant they feel standing next to them, and next to their ‘perfection.’  If you shine before them in all your glory, they will feel insignificant by comparison.  Wave your hand at all your fabulous qualities, and give attention to the person or people in front of you.  Make others feel that when they stand next to you, they will know their true worth, and you will steal their hearts.  

Talk to others with sincerity.  Don’t give the impression that you are trying to manipulate them with a learned psychological technique, or that you have a hidden agenda.  If you care enough to want someone to be well disposed toward you, then at the very least, they deserve your sincerity.  

People who present themselves as an interesting conversationalist, trying to show themselves in the best possible light by proving how clever they are, and dropping names to show how much they have seen and experienced in life – this way of acting is from inner intention, which is how the majority of people behave when they want to appear interesting to others.  Take a step back from the uniformity, and take a different stance.  Give others the opportunity to appear interesting, rather than trying to be an entertaining conversant.  

Sacrifice putting your own personality in the spot light, so that another’s personality can shine.  As a result, you receive the very thing you have sacrificed.  The other person will become an avid fan because you fulfilled their inner intention, which is something they would never experience in the company of a celebrity.  

To get someone to be interested in a business proposal that they are not remotely interested in, place yourself and your proposal to one side, and give your full attention.  Take a genuine interest in everything that person is involved in.  Only then will they show interest in your proposal.  

You may ask, “Why give attention to others when they are self-centered, and barely bother to talk to me?”  Well, why should they take an interest, admire, love, and respect you?  Everything you imagine to be true about yourself - how wonderful you are in comparison to them, is just a fantasy of inner intention clothed in the excess potential of ‘dependent,’ and ‘important’ relationships.  

Your advantage is that you are outer intention directed, while others are inner intention directed.  Make the most of your advantage.  If you want something from someone, let go of the intention to receive, and substitute with the intention to give.  It’s very easy to do.

If you want someone to respect you, respect them, and make them feel important.  If you need help and support, help and support someone else.  If you want mutual love, abandon possessiveness and dependency.  Be the one who does the loving, without expecting anything in return.   

If there’s something you want someone else to do, arrange matters so that everything corresponds to their wishes and goals.  Ask yourself how you can connect what you want with another person’s needs.  Start by defining the other’s needs.  These needs could be money, power,  the respect of others, a sense of fulfillment from work well done, care for their children, prestige, a leading role in their team, social recognition - all these things are variations on the theme of self-worth.  

No one should feel judged for their desire to feel more worthy.  Everyone is trying to increase their sense of self-worth.  They just go about it in different ways.  It’s much worse when someone stops developing, not wanting anything at all, although this happens very rarely.  Usually, people are in some way dissatisfied with their current position in life, and so strive for something.  

Work out how a task you have might improve someone’s sense of self-worth.  Then, present this to the other person in context to how this would increase their stature.  They will then experience greater faith in themselves.  When they do, be generously appreciative of them.   

Get others to take actions that fulfill your goals, with their actions being important to them.  All you have to do is wake up, drag yourself away from your own interests, and think about the needs of others.

Example:  If you are in retail, you think about how you can sell products to potential customers.  The buyer, however, doesn’t want to please you, and doesn’t want to be ‘sold to.’  They just want to buy.  The buyer is thinking, “I wish they wouldn’t keep trying to flog things to me, and just let me choose what I want to buy.”  Don’t think about how to sell your products.  Think about what the buyer might want to purchase.  

Once you are helping someone else realize their inner intention, consider casually what you need from that person.  While realizing the other person’s inner intention, make your request in passing.  You may find you don’t even have to hint at your own need(s), with everything unfolding of its own accord.  This is the magical power of outer intention.    

Issue a challenge:  “Who among you is the best?”  This appeals to the self-worth of others.  “Let’s show them what we’re made of!”  When appealing to self-worth, others will carry out what you want as though it was their own desire.  And, you will have their commitment because you have abandoned your own inner intention, paying attention to others.  Work with other people’s inner intention, and not your own.  

A common mistake:  “People are bound to buy our product, because our product is a masterpiece.”  This position is flawed on 3 accounts:

1.  “Our product is a masterpiece” is strongly directed by inner importance.  You can’t evaluate your product accurately, because you are not indifferent.  2.  Inner intention is aimed at selling.  To others, your product is not a masterpiece, and others have no interest in those who want to sell.  3.  The greatest flaw is that you are centered around a product, and not the needs of customers.

There’s no need to invent the object of demand.  Most inventions that are ahead of their time are not implemented, neither do they pay off.  This doesn’t mean innovation has no place.  The point is that if you are counting on a masterpiece that’s ahead of its time, you are likely to lose the bet.  Of course, your product could become a great success, but this certainly doesn’t happen all the time.  Only what fulfills customers’ current demands can be guaranteed success.

How do you make others want to buy your product?  The answer:  You cannot.  Or, if not impossible, it’s extremely difficult, because this is from inner intention.  Only going with the flow and using outer intention to know what the customers want, and where their needs have already been satisfied, yields the best results.  Changes by demand are shaped by the alternatives flow.  The alternatives flow contains all the answers, and is the only thing that can guarantee success.  

Only until very recently have inventions by Leonardo Da Vinci been made into physical form.  This would all seem quite obvious.  However, the mind is likely to forget, as it tries to break away from the stream, and take control of the current.  Make the most of the alternatives flow.  When you do, many an obstacle will pass you by untouched.  

We blame and criticize others when we are trying to control them with inner intention.  Yet, when you emphasize a person’s positive qualities, you lose nothing, and the situation develops to your benefit.  Never blame anyone.  

People can be hyper-critical of themselves, even to the point of sadomasochism.  And yet, they’ll take any accusation made by another very badly indeed.  People will always take offense to criticism, irrespective of whether they are in the wrong, or whether the accusation is fair or not.  Criticism only creates excess potential, with the one criticizing being the one to suffer.  You will never persuade someone that they are in the wrong.  They may listen to your accusations, but they’re unlikely to fully acknowledge being in the wrong, even if they superficially agree.  You may be able to assert yourself at their expense, and establish power over them, but not without adopting the role of manipulator.  If this is not your goal, abandon criticism and blame.  When you are blaming others, you are just slapping your hands on the water, trying to swim against the current.    

Never tell someone they are wrong.  It’s better to remain in a position of neutrality.  This protects you from damaging the other person’s self-worth, and from balanced forces.

When you resign yourself to the shortcomings of others and concentrate on their strengths, you go with the flow, which is immensely beneficial.  Stand back and observe the game as a spectator.  Remember that criticism only causes harm, and go with the flow.  

Blame and criticism never lead to anything positive, because this catches a person off balance, knocking them off course.  When encouraging a person no matter what, you urge them in a favorable direction without making them lose the flow, not undermining their innermost hopes.  When you encourage someone, no one’s rights are infringed upon, and no one’s pride is knocked.  Your interests become one, with their desires running parallel to your own.  

When being criticized, you either reject the criticism, or try to convince yourself that the criticism is well founded.  In both cases, you don’t accept the criticism outright unless you have developed your own personal guilt complex in the meantime.  Criticism can spur you on or make you behave as you should.  However, only the mind can be coerced.  It’s impossible to force the hand of the heart.  The heart will always do what it wants, or hinder the mind from making it do what the mind thinks it should do.  Criticism makes the heart the enemy of the mind.  Encouragement, however, makes it an ally.  

Arguing to the end to make a point is a sure way of making enemies.  If the argument is critical, and your interests in no way allow you to step down, then go ahead and argue.  In all other cases, leave exercising the right to slap one’s hands around in the water up to others.  

Winning a debate will never pay dividends.  Allow others to freely state what they cannot agree with.  You, on the other hand, will avoid the excess potential of battling against the current.  To avoid being drawn into the argument game, wake up, and switch on your inner guardian.  While everyone else is working with inner intention, insisting on their personal opinions, you have flown backwards from the window paine, and are taking a good look around.  All you can do is leave a suggestion, and leave the ‘horn locking’ to others.

If you can win the argument, consider yourself defeated.  Even if the opponent or opponents agree that you are right, numerous informal arguments are forming in their minds.  The one who loses the argument takes a blow to their self esteem, and the one who delivered the blow is the ‘winner.’  No one wants to be punched in the face, just as no one wants a punch to their feeling of self-worth.  
No one wants to reveal that they have to fight for their self-worth, despite the fact that we are all looking for confirmation, every step we take.  

Just because someone is silent after they lose an argument, this doesn’t mean they are not hurt.  They may consciously accept defeat, but their subconscious feels hurt.  

There’s one sure way to set a person against you, which is to let them know how much better you are than they.  Avoid hurting other people’s self-esteem like the plague.  

“Do not make idols for yourselves, and do not create enemies” is an important slogan you can have for creating relationships that go with the flow.  

Agree with the other person, and then calmly provide your point of view without insisting or trying to prove anything.  When taking this approach, you not only go with the flow.  You also implement outer intention.  This yields results beyond compare, far beyond intellectual contrivances.  The tone needs to be from a place of agreement from the very beginning.  

If someone’s first response is “No,” it’s out of the question to convince them.  There’s no way of flowing together in this instance.  It’s important to start a conversation where the first word someone else says is, “Yes.”  

Never begin a conversation with a sensitive issue.  Later in the conversation though, more heated issues can be discussed.  When going with the flow from the start, the more heated subjects won’t go into dissonance.  

If you slip up and expect to be blamed fairly, try not to get prepared to defend yourself.  Come forward in admitting your mistake.  Then, the person who intended to vent the wrath of justice upon you is likely to take a more generous and gracious stance.  In this instance, “Attack is the greatest form of defense” does not apply.  Because you voluntarily do all of this, your self-esteem will not suffer, and you validate the other’s inner intention.  You end up ‘killing two birds with one stone.’  You increase the standing of your opponent, and you keep your own integrity.

Trying to defend and justify yourself only gives your power to pendulums, from heightened inner importance.  Give yourself the right to make mistakes.  Don’t justify them.  Acknowledge them, and you will feel relieved.  

You are not obliged to say the other person is right, but do it anyway.  You have nothing to lose.  By admitting that the other person was right, you earn their good grace.  We live in an aggressive world of pendulums, where at any moment others may be forced to stand their ground and protect themselves.  Suddenly, you are offering to do that for them.  They are immediately relieved and grateful for assistance in the battle.  You are no longer a potential opponent, but are an ally.  

When someone turns out to be right, others usually just keep quiet.  However, when you openly express your opinion that the person was right, for that person, the moment will have huge significance, and they feel indebted, or at the very least, grateful to you.  Although, for the most part, the realization will be subconscious.  

We live in a jungle where everyone puts themselves first, ready to defend themselves.  This is no over-exaggeration.  It just seems that way because we have long become used to the current state of affairs.  Given the nature of the environment, you can become a great ally to those who are already tired of the battle.  Do you have any idea of how many allies you could find?  All it takes is dishing importance to others, and not holding back acknowledgment when you know they are right.

People are usually so anxious and burdened with importance, they wonder around failing to see the nuggets right under their noses.  You have huge advantages - mindfulness, the absence of importance, and the willingness to give others your attention.  Make the use of your advantages, and you will see gold where others only see stones.  

Mutual understanding cannot be achieved without attuning to the frequency of the other.  

Unique personality characteristics of someone, and their unique essence, is the definition of “fraile.”

When establishing a close connection with another, this is “frailing,” or tuning to that person’s special characteristics.  Being able to grasp the essence of the other’s fraile is the degree by which a connection is established.  

Without giving attention, it’s impossible to tune to another’s frequency.  A successful businessman once said, “Everyone wants to offer me something, but no one ever asks me what I need.”  

Because people are preoccupied with themselves, the most powerful way to establish a connection with a person is to bring the conversation within the context of their interests.  You attune to the thought-frequency of another when you talk in the language of their own interests.

When the rider and the donkey are lost in their own thoughts, the donkey will not do what the rider tells it to, stubbornly refusing to go in the right direction.  The donkey is thinking about carrots, so if you show the donkey a carrot, it will go wherever you want it to.  You are in effect inserting your own intention into the context of the donkey’s intention.  How does fulfilling someone else’s desire benefit the donkey?  If you can find an answer to this question, others will do what you need them to do.

Listen to the other person to know what they want.  If the other person is indifferent to you, talk about what interests them.  Put yourself in their shoes to understand what motivates them.  Then, when tuned into their frequency, you can smoothly move onto the issue that interests you.  

A person’s name is the simplest key to their frequency.  It’s inescapable that since birth, a person is appealed to by one name.  Use their name more often in a conversation, and it will have an effect.  Calling a person by their name is like a password that you acknowledge them and their worth.  

Everyone has a shield around them to guard their self-worth.  If you show that you have no intention of ‘pouncing’ on them, they will let their shield down.  Show a genuine liking for the other person to get through the barrier.  People love their pets so much because they are always so pleased to see us.  You don’t have to go as far as expressing ‘canine delight,’ but you can smile and greet someone enthusiastically, calling them by their name and listening intentively.  

There’s nothing more cold than to have a conversation based upon empty etiquette, with someone pulling on a smile as though it is an accessory.  

Everyone has their own resonant frequency - their own ‘forte’ - the thing they are particularly passionate about, interested in, or are proud of.  If you can determine a person’s true passion, discuss it with them, and give them a chance to express themselves, this is the most effective way of establishing a connection with someone.  If you can catch the ‘thread of their forte,’ wooing them will be easy.  

When asking someone of a favor, you increase their importance.  If you ask someone for help and emphasize their significance, they will feel needed, and you will win their favor.  

People will remember someone's generosity until the end of their days.

A person is not most wounded when ignored, insulted, beaten, or maimed.  The deepest wound of all is degradation.  People are most dear to their self-worth.

When someone has nothing more to gain in a material sense, they hunger for power to feed their self-worth.  Nothing excites people more than power, so you can imagine how self-worth plays in people’s actions and motivations.  

People with negative slides try to hide their negative qualities, and project them onto others.  If you give someone with negative slides their negativity back that they project onto you, expect a very turbulent reaction.  They are likely to become your worst enemy.  It’s better to leave other people’s negative slides alone.

Being in love is of course a perfect way to tune into someone’s fraile.  Love can be preserved once it has flowered if it’s not turned into a dependent relationship.  However, there’s nothing you can do to make yourself fall in love.  Love is a mystery - this is all that can be said.

When attuning to each other, great things can be accomplished that definitely could not be possible with inner intention.  

Suppose someone is attacking you, or suppose you need something from someone.  In both cases, determine what is driving that person, what is ‘eating at them,’ and what they lack, which could be health, confidence, or inner calm.  Everyone has something that eats away at them, even if it’s relatively small.  Imagine that person getting exactly what they want.  The first thing that comes to mind is fine.  It can be something cliché if you want, like them happily skipping through a bunch of flowers.  Then the person will become well-disposed toward you, seemingly for no reason.  If you can tap into someone’s fraile and uplift them, they will feel as though a comforting wave has come over them.  

It doesn’t matter if the other person knows why they feel good around you.  The result is that you have won their good will.  Any visualization to uplift someone should be sincere, with unity of heart and mind.  If you genuinely wish someone well, the result can be quite substantial.  As you know, it’s the abundance of free energy that makes a person charming, magnetic, powerful, and charismatic.

People mostly pick up on a powerful personality subconsciously.  The force of a person’s energy is proportional to the volume of free energy they run, and the strength of their connection between their heart and mind.  The excess energy flows in a fountain, and is felt by others.  

Charm is the energy someone radiates when they have union of heart and mind.  When you have more charm, your face looks softer and more attractive.  To confirm this, look at photos of yourself when you went through a dark period, and compare with photos of yourself when being ‘high vibrational.’  

When overflowing with a fountain of energy, also have positive visualizations of someone you’re talking to, being the exact opposite of an energy vampire.  This gives a huge advantage in many areas - careers, a romantic partner, etc.   

Imagine carrying a piglet everywhere you go, having to constantly quiet it down.  Imagine the relief and energy that’s freed up if you let the piglet go.  Such is the case with shortcomings.  The more importance you give to your shortcomings, the greater the excess potential and balanced forces will be.  Focus on your strengths to be free and at ease.      

When having to be at your best, release yourself from the burden of your shortcomings.

The battle with your shortcomings is inner intention - the fly beating itself against the window paine.  Eliminating excess potential and freeing up energy gives you a huge advantage.  

“What the eye fears, the hands do.”  What is better?  To be tortured by doubt, to wallow in your hangups, to lick you lips in desire and fitfully conceal your weaknesses?  Or, to simply shake off the baggage, and calmly fulfill the work of purified intention?

If you can’t drop importance, at least let go of the grip of control, and shift from worrying to taking action.  Just begin the process of doing, in whatever way you can.  It doesn’t matter if your actions are initially effective or not.  Allow yourself to act badly.  The potential of importance will be dissipated in the course of action.  The energy of intention will be released, and everything will work out fine.  

(The rest of this chapter discusses jobs.)

With jobs, you have the right to choose, and your potential is only limited by your intention and the level of importance you attribute to it.  When arriving at a decision of what job most suits you, don’t think about prestige, the means to achieving it, or your shortcomings.  Instead, focus on whether the job is really for you or not.  If you have doubts, pendulums will try to create the necessary conditions for anxiety, disappointment, and despair.  Be aware of this, and maintain the confidence that you have the right to choose, and that if you make an order, sooner or later, it will be delivered.  

Anything is possible in the alternatives space, although pendulums will try to convince you otherwise.  All you have to do is choose, and hold the firm intention to receive your order.  

The greater the indifference to your order, the sooner it will be completed.  The absence of desire allows you to concentrate on the intention to act, rather than worrying about the possibility of failing.

You can use the following slide:  You make your own choice deciding on the kind of job you want, but how you will find it has nothing to do with you.  

Of course, if finances require, you may have to take whatever is available.  However, once basic necessities are met, you can make the order for a job you really want.  

If you enjoy a job but feel tension even when using positive slides, it’s best to look for something else.  

In a resume, choose one quality they are looking for and make it the main focus.  Don’t have many different areas of focus, because this will make you appear desperate, willing to do anything for a job.  

When writing resume, write in accordance to what the employer wants and needs.  Use the employer’s language, rather than coming up with your own eloquent phrases.  Imagine that rather than being a job applicant, you are actually the employer compiling a template of the ideal resume of your future employee.  Then, your resume will meet their criteria, rather than your own.  

Look for resumes of specialists in your field.  This will give you a huge advantage - you will discover all sorts of useful details.  

Instead of being in ‘seeking mode’ when looking for a job, announce your presence, and the let the job find you.  Whether or not they are hiring, send resumes out to where you want to work.   

Be solely focused on your employer’s inner intention.  If you know the spirit of the company, you will be their type of person.  

The more you try not to get anxious in an interview, the more it will not work.  The only way to reduce stress when in the ‘hot seat’ is to accept the possibility of failure.  Purify your intention from desire.  You are going to the interview not to be offered the job, and not to pass the interview, but to literally get through it.  Do not strive for your goal.  Concentrate on the process.  Enjoy the interview process like any other event in life.  Nobody is going to eat you, and you have nothing to lose.  Cast off all doubt.  You have already entertained the possibility of failure, so you have nothing to lose.

Only in the light of the employer’s concerns can you be the best, so your task lies in answering questions in such a way that you return to the context of the employer’s concerns.  The skill lies in at the same time giving precise answers without talking profusely or deviating from the subject.  Vague answers with lengthy explanations always irritate employers.  As soon as the opportunity arises, try to touch on issues relating to what the company does, what it takes pride in, and what problems it may be facing.  Focus on how your qualities can be resolutions to their problems.   

If you are not a successful applicant, the job was not meant for you.  You never know what problems you may have escaped, so luckily.  Be calm and wait for the job that is meant for you, and you will be the successful applicant.  If you have been accepted with a position that is meant for another, you can expect to come into problems.  So, carry on searching for the job that is yours.  The issue of work should not be the grounds for the slightest wave of inner discomfort.  Go to work as if to a celebration.