Vadim Zeland's "Reality Transurfing" Notes and Summaries, Chapter 10
Chasing a false goal ends up going nowhere and feeding pendulums. Or, reaching the false goal makes one realize the goal isn’t actually desired. Buying clothes as an analogy for choosing goals: Just because certain clothes look good on someone else, this doesn’t mean they will look good on you. You need to distinguish between things that are yours, and things that are meant for someone else. When looking for a coat, have an idea of a coat in the mind, but don’t be specific. Then, let the heart guide you. Your heart will not miss the tiniest detail, and will point you to the right one, at the right time. You will see it and feel instantly drawn to it. The mind gets so immersed in the process of choosing that it doesn’t listen to the heart. How comfortable you feel when making the decision shows the quality of the decision. The heart doesn’t always know what it wants though, and can be indecisive. If there is a slight feeling of heaviness or discord, the item is meant for so